I’ve thoroughly enjoyed the Second LIfe’s Herald on how to spot gender switching in Second Life (that’s where an RL male is an SL female, and vice cersa). I’m going to add two points to it.
The first is a simple question – does it really matter? I mean when it comes down to you have two humans in SL who are enjoying each other’s company. Yes there would be problems if RL started to seep in, but then thats got to be a personal call. I do agree if you’re switching, there’sno need to use that as some sort of practical joke when it’s all over. It hurts.
The other piece of advice? If you really want to check, see if the Avatar has the XCite system running. Quickest way to do that is turn on ’show transaprent items’ with crtl-shift-t in the client. That brings up all the attached prims which are invisible, and it should be relativly easy to spot if someone has ‘hotspots’ around their hot spots. Its not a cast iron guarantee, but as with everything, it might hep you decide – what you do with that information is up to you.
